Being a wife and homemaker is something that the Lord has heavily laid on my heart in the last few years. In fact, halfway through college I realized that there was no degree I actually wanted to pursue and obtain a career in because I felt God was calling me to be at home. I went on to finish college with a degree in General Human Environmental Science which is basically Home Economics. I studied Nutrition, Child Development, Family, Finance, Interior Design, and Apparel Studies. I'm glad I finished college and obtained a Bachelors Degree. The experience was a good one and I learned a lot through it, however had I felt the call in my heart to be a homemaker and helpmeet to my future family sooner I probably would have opted out of the well worn path of obtaining a four year degree.
Through much prayer and discussion we have decided to live on one income and have me stay at home. I am so thrilled with this! Its like a dream come true. After many years of working a crazy schedule and dreaming of being a homemaker it is actually becoming a reality! I can't even tell you how content and at peace I am in this season of my life. God is perfectly working out his plan. I know it will be hard and require sacrifices, but to us prioritizing our lives around family and the home will be well worth it. I will be watching my friends baby in August once she goes back to work so I will be able to earn a little income while still being available to take care of Mike and our house full time. This path is definitely not normal by society's standards and I know I will be looked down upon by some, but I feel it is what God is calling me to do. It is my prayer that I wouldn't take this blessing for granted.
i think this is great! i share the same thoughts/calling on staying home. i saw your blog on your FB a while back and bookmarked it and every now and then check it. i love your dave ramsey and stay-at-home attitude! and starting with it fresh in marriage is just awesome.
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Hey Kelly! I'll have to start following your blog and congrats on paying off all of your debt!!! :)
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ReplyDeleteThat is wonderful! I love that you obtained a degree and still choose to stay home. It speaks volumes about how hard-wired women really are to take care of their homes and families. Even a degree can't stop a woman with this calling! :D God bless you in your journey as a homemaker!
ReplyDeleteI just found your blog and have been reading through it today. This blog is a Godsend! It was exactly what I needed to read at this moment! DH and I are planning on me transitioning to becoming a full-time wife and homemaker at the end of June. Reading this blog today has been such an encouragement. Blessings to you!
ReplyDeleteHey Michelle I'm so glad that you're encouraged here! Thanks for stopping by!
ReplyDeleteHi Missy, I was so encouraged by your post - you remind me of me! I am graduating with a bachelor's degree (in Women's Ministries) in May, but I've gone back and forth so many times on whether or not it's worth it to continue on this path in light of my dream job of being a wife, homemaker, and mom. I am thankful to have parents who want to do what they can to help me have a college education but who still value my long-term desires, too. :) I'm hoping to be married later this year and stay home full time even before children because I think it's still so valuable, biblically, and am convinced at this point it's the best use of our resources. The only hard part is talking with people who do not understand that at all, which I'm sure you've had to deal with!! It is so good to know we need to please God, not man.
ReplyDeleteThank you for your beautiful example! I'm going to join your "followers." :)
Hi Olivia! We really do sound a lot a like! :) Having a degree is a good thing no matter what. You never know what could happen in life and I'm glad I have the experience. I've been pretty lucky because most people I talk to are pretty positive and understanding about me staying at home. I've had a few strange looks and awkward pauses, but nothing I can't handle! :)
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